Basically, when women have sex it messes their brains into believing they are bonded with that person and they do all kinds of irrational things. I have never heard of men wanting to marry women that cheat with them but maybe, some people are just fucked in the head.

It's obvious from an outsider's perspective. That applies to so many situations. The reality seems obvious unless you are the one in it and caught up in the lust. Regardless of what anyone says with respect to morals, there isn't a person out there who doesn't get excited when someone who is ostensibly "taken" gives them attention. It's a thrill because it appeals directly to that primal competitive object in us. It's ego masturbation.

We've all been there at one time or another. We'd be dishonest to say that the taboo of it doesn't entice us now again. It's just that the better of us - and the learned of us - know it's a huge case of "the grass isn't always greener". There is a reason civilization has evolved certain morals, and it's not to please God, despite the fact that is where the morals were encoded as doctrine on a surface level. It's because to not act in the way the moral describes actually creates more chaos, and hurts you too. We are enticed by poison.

I've learned this lesson personally once. You get pulled in by the "he's such an asshole and I deserve better" shenanigans. It's always horseshit. No woman leaves a man who is providing well for her because he "isn't there for her emotionally". When I start hearing statements like that, I run. It's always a fucking grenade, and if for whatever reason you need to be told this: NEVER EVER approach anything like this at the place where you work. It can destroy your work environment quickly, and whatever mini-culture exists there between yourself and another group of co-workers. Don't have sex where they write your checks.

Once bitten twice shy. I've seen friends learn this lesson as well. It seems many people require learning it once. But if you can benefit from the truth of somebody else, try. This particular truth never fails. Ever.

Love is blind as they say. I think everyone learns this sooner or later the hard way, unless the person is super analytical and smart. For anyone out there who's not sure, yes, if they are willing to cheat with you they'll cheat on you. They're not in the same headspace you are, and are lying.

It's easy to see from the outside because you have nothing invested in it and can read it completely objectively. It's why doctors go to other doctors for medical diagnosis and treatment and lawyers go to other lawyers for legal representation. They just can't see things in such a coldly objective way when they're the ones caught in the middle of it.

there's logic in what you say, but at the same time, that's also degenerate.

Maybe they are always looking for the same person, then finding themselves disappointed.

Every day

That's not true. Some are just lazy or sorely misinformed and think sex is love. It's only love if you are committed to someone and willing to take the risks they someday they May cheat on you.

Many women feel that it is men who are incapable of faithfulness. I say it depends on the person and whether they have a real value system or not.

In some cases both women and men make themselves Believe they are incapable and born cheaters. But that is just a way for them to justify their chose deceptive, selfish behavior.

Yes and no. Women are genetically attracted to the mentally and physically strongest male that they can find (aka: Alphas)

If you're a complete fuckass and just overall a pathetic excuse for a man, then Stacy will either leave you (or at the very least cheat on you) with Chad 9.5/10 times. That's what so fucking bullshit about the whole "Thot Patrol" movement. Yea, it's a redpill on the Female Imperative, and gives young men the knowledge that females aren't shit. But the fact that women cheat more often than men (yes, that is a fact, there was a psychological study published last year on it) can also be attributed to the fact that their "men" are pretty much just mate hoarders and they don't want to put in the work to become Chad

Actually, it's men who are not affected by whether a relationship is good or not. Men will cheat and have sex with others even if they're in a good relationship. It alters the percentages for women, though. Of course there are some women who are whores who aren't any different than men.

AWALT - you would think it is common knowledge, but common knowledge has been banned in primary schools and uni's for some time now.

YES, cheaters always cheat again. I forgave a cheating GF once and she just did it again a year later. The first time was just a learning experience for her so she got better at covering her tracks the second time. If you ever catch your partner cheating just walk away. Don't let your judgment be clouded by fond memories of the good times together. That person is dead and may have never existed to begin with.

Leaving one person for another is a form of cheating no matter how courteous a person is about it.

If she's in a bad relationship, she should end it. Not because there's someone waiting in the wings, but because of self-respect.

Bingo. If your woman cheats on you, 99% of the time it is your own fault. Not to make excuses for whorish behavior, but a real man will recognize when he fucks up.

Tell me you didn't stick it in that crazy? I mean, crazy fucks are fun but it's rarely worth it.

It's not my job to step in and be a husband AND a parent. My ex didn't know the difference between a checking and savings account, didn't know how insurance worked. Like, fucking really? What fucking parent doesn't teach their kid these things? That shit got old and was an important part of why I left. I got sick of that shit.